Thandeka’s Diary Session Highlights – Big Brother Mzansi Season 6
During her latest Big Brother Mzansi diary session, Thandeka opened up about house dynamics, conflicts, and how she feels misunderstood by fellow housemates.
Thandeka’s Diary session began by speaking about Trixie, saying she believes Trixie has a lot of introspection to do. According to Thandeka, Trixie often tries to take control of situations and struggles when she is not in charge. She claimed that Trixie has done things in the house that were not allowed and had to be reminded of her actions. Thandeka suggested that Trixie’s need to dominate situations comes from a lack of personal control.
Thandeka admitted that she also likes to take charge at times, but not out of a desire for power. She described herself as articulate and confident in communication and said she steps up when clarity is needed. She added that the only other housemate who communicates well in her opinion is Ramona, which is why she often feels responsible for leading discussions.
“I Feel Like the Most Hated in the House” – Thandeka
Thandeka confessed that she feels like the most hated housemate, especially by the girls. She said many housemates misunderstand her, twist her intentions, and paint her as the villain even when she is trying to help.
According to Thandeka, people judge her without taking time to understand her and prefer to believe gossip instead of speaking to her directly.
She also addressed her current working relationship with iLano, saying that although they are aligned, she still has reservations. Thandeka described the house as full of “crazy triangulation,” where people constantly influence each other and create unnecessary drama.
Allegations of Double Standards and Gossip
Thandeka went on to accuse Neliswa of having double standards. She insisted she personally has no problem with Neliswa but can sense that Neliswa has an issue with her. She believes some housemates talk behind her back and form alliances based on rumors instead of honest communication.
She also claimed that someone deliberately placed Trixie’s belongings in her bag to create drama and make it appear as if she was stealing or hiding items. Thandeka linked this to an earlier incident where Trixie’s foundation was found in her bag.
She further explained that iLano frequently uses her belongings, yet got angry when a brush went missing, which she felt was unfair since she always shares her things without complaints.
Thoughts on Liema and Mmeli
Thandeka didn’t hold back when discussing Liema, suggesting that Liema might have a romantic interest in Mmeli. She questioned why Liema would nominate Mmeli while using her (Thandeka) as an excuse.
“People enjoy using my name to justify their decisions instead of being honest about their personal motives,” she said.
She repeated that she knows both Neliswa and Liema do not like her and that she can feel the tension whenever she is around them. However, she acknowledged Ramona’s apology, saying Ramona admitted she had judged her unfairly based on what others said.
Mixed Feelings After Surviving Eviction
Thandeka expressed relief about surviving nominations but admitted she is unhappy with the growing division in the house. She said she misses the early days when housemates were more united, had open conversations, and interacted freely.
According to her, the current separation among housemates has only created more misunderstandings, tension, and unnecessary conflict.
Despite everything, Thandeka remains hopeful that things might improve and that housemates will eventually see her true intentions.
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